
2025 SPECIAL EVENT SUMMARY
FROM LESSONS TO SHOW RINGS - MAY 3, 2025
WITH SPORT PSYCHOLOGIST DR. PERNILLA NATHAN
Athlete Mindset Sheet
Goal Setting Suggestions
Try not to set a number as a goal (fence height or placings)
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this sets you up for failure (and your horse)
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your horse does not have fence height goals! They want safety, enjoyment, consistency, and connection. That’s when they find their competitive side
If you have those goals, then let that go into the universe
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let the goal of fence height or placings float out into the universe so it is still there, but not your main focus
Set goals about feel, strides, implementing a plan, etc
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achievable goals that are digestible
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goals that are in flow and help create flow
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flow state is where you feel effortless, where you enter peak performance, and you are in the “zone” (no limits)
When Do You Move Up
4% challenge
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keeps the overwhelm at bay
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there is challenge to what you are doing, but no cortisol drop
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can be done in flow state
Keeps in flow state
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if the challenge is more than 4% you will lose the flow state
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this is why we climb up AND down the ladder
Important to acknowledge there is NO judgement behind moving up or down
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the move or the move down is for achieving the goals above
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this is normal and how top riders approach their rides/competitions
Similarly, if you don’t ever have challenge then you have boredom and don’t get activated
Rider/Athlete Responsibility
Pre ride routines
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sleep, food, hydration, limit social media exposure (what you consume pre-ride is important)
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mental state, acknowledging mental state and implementing skills
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skills to activate peak performance and the parts of your brain that you need for peak performance
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breath work and meditation, visualization, intentions (1-2 SMALL things), mantra, safe spacesstretching, music, connecting with your horse
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RESIST trauma dumping on your friends before your ride and their ride!
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your horse knows when you have CORTISOL DUMPED
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NEUTRAL mindset, don’t force a positive mindset if you’re not there
During ride routines/mindset
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again, breathing
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micro check-ins
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CURIOSITY MINDSET (being open minded)
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find the FUN, laugh at mistakes
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be in the moment
Post ride
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document (notes app)
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GRATITUDE (I would say before, after, during, and night before haha) list 3!
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blueprint what WORKED, and make what didn’t ancient history






